Is It True Luv

Online dating is becoming largely acceptable today as people become more comfortable with using computers and smart phones for communication. E-mail, chatting, and social sites have increased the comfort level of talking with each other online. The relationships, which we make on these media calls, virtual relationships. Further, if we do love someone who never seen in the real world, but seen only in this virtual environment, it’s a virtual love.  In virtual world we love only to a profile, always it’s not may a real person. but still you have real feelings.

In this case we could be any person which we want to be. In here, all the physical facts are not important, such as occupation, education, physical attraction; even your gender or anything. Not only that, we could love several people simultaneously without any problem at all. Here we have lots of freedom to do love. You could carry your love anywhere you want with your mobile device. You may never feel alone. World was never being like this for the relationships. Specially for to do love.

But the question is; is this real love? In one hand, love is spiritual rather than physical; hence one could say, “Yes…This may a real love”. But honestly, without even touching the other person, could we do love or imagine a real love? the fact is, here we do only love, we don’t see the figure of that person or his social status.

On the other hand…in the real world though we see and do love a real person and even we could touch them, still it may not a true love. still we could cheat the love. So what’s the deference? So the thing is, though it’s a physical or virtual, true love is still depending on our mind and the way of thinking and the way of doing it. What do you think? 

Does love happen at first site..

At the very first site, we feel love just for first impression. That’s the romance. It happens automatically. But this reality may valid just for few days. Coz’ day by day we get to know each other in deeply. And this understanding will be the key for perfect long term love affair. In that case to keep this wonderful love in live, we need real concerns for sure. In shortly, when time is passing we need good reasons for this love to keep alive. Otherwise it never goes “automatically”.

Time may erode the feelings of care, love and concern in even the best of relationships. Sometime People stop doing the easy nice little things they used to do for each other because they're too tired, or start waiting for the other person to do something nice first. Eventually, both people feel taken for granted and horribly lonely.

Many people think that love should not require any effort. But the truth is, love requires regular refinement of basic relationship skills. Skills such as listening with understanding, expressing feelings with kindness, and resolving conflict without lapsing into criticism. Couples use these relationship enhancement skills generously in the early stages of their relationship. Over time, however, people stop using their skills and rely more and more with increasing resentment on the hope of getting what they want. They stop doing what they gladly did at the beginning.

Some people thinks, “If I have to work so hard in love, something must be wrong with the relationship” or “Isn't love supposed to be spontaneous?” never think in that way. It surely needs care and concern. Otherwise one day or another, your place in the relationship, may be taken by another person forever

Wat iz Luv

Love is a wonderful thing. Falling in real love, feel like a beautiful fairytale of course. but it depends, if only you just know how to feel it. It doesn’t matter, who you love with, it matters how you do it and how you experience it. If you know how to fall in love with someone and enjoy every moment of it, you’ll be able to experience it and cherish it better than many others who think love is just an excuse for sex or a way to lean on someone else. It doesn’t matter if you’re already in love or falling in love with someone right this moment, Just try these devotions and commitments to know how to fall in love like you’re in a fairytale, and you may fall into a perfect one!

More flexible, more listening and more patients will be the main key point for such a love. as an example, suppose your partner is suggesting something for you. So…Always listen carefully to your partner, be patient whatever you heard. Then talk with your lover calmly. If it’s a bad thing or a good thing, try to show the pros and cons lovingly. Then let your partner to decide it. If he or she really loves you, never get a wrong decision. However if something goes wrong and turned it to a warm argument don’t fear about, keep remember that this argument’s end should be a good decision for both of you. Never walk away from an argument and shut the door on your partner. Even if it hurts like crazy, talk about it and always end the argument with a warm hug and a kiss.

As possible as you could, stay in touch. You don’t have to be with each other all the time, but try to at least call or text and updating present situation. Maybe, when you are shopping with your friends you could buy some gifts for you partner. So they will realize wherever you go, in minds you stay with your lover. When you have some spare times on weekends, try to spend with your lover at a park, in cinema or a picnic. In this way you can know each other’s desires and wants more and more. And always take photographs or make home videos together. Special memories of everyday moments can actually help both of you fall more in love with each other each time you watch those photographs or videos again and again.

Never lose the faith about your true love. Same time, keep remember that you’ll never clap in one hand; you need two hands for that. Likewise such a love cannot exist in a single heart. Both hearts must be equally shared, then your fairytale romance will definitely have a happily ever after.