What is Your Valentine's Day Plan

14th of February means, very special day for almost every loving couple. It’s like Valentine’s Day give people permission and space to celebrate the love. Or reminding, it’s time to say “I love you” to your partner.
 
However, there may be very rare couples who celebrating everyday as Valentine’s Day. So they don’t feel any different on this day too. Further they may think that,

“Why on an earth, you want a special day for do love anyway? … Why you can’t love your partner every day, Instead?”

In a way, they are right. But everybody’s life is not the same. Sometime you may be a workaholic busy man or women. Or you may not have spare time to spend with your loved one. Even you may not have a moment to talk with your partner. Nowadays most of the people’s lives are very busy. But of course still you love your partner. So this will be the day for those people to show how their feeling of love for their partners

.Anyhow…did you plan how you gonna spend this valentine day with your lover? Have you thought about a gift? Or flower bouquet? or something else?

Why don’t you make a creative gift, like an album with past pictures which are in both of you? Or How about writing down some things, you love about your partner, or some love poems, on a paper and sticking it somewhere they will see it first thing in the morning? So…those types of things will keep with them forever. And it will remind how much they meant to you. If you want you can write as....

"There is something in my mind to tell you for some time, I believe this is the time for that, So…here it is…”when the sun goes down, and the night get colder, so..You may count on me… I’ll be there for you looking over your shoulder while embracing you, in both of my hands, and the end…when the all the masks are stripped, will remain only the deep love, and the passion with deep emotion for stronger bond forever!!!"
 
It’s always good idea to spend as much as time, with your partner on that day, you can plan a day out with her, may be to go an art gallery, or a museum, or for a nice long walk on a tree arcade. That would be more romantic, rather than watching a movie in a dark hall for couple of hours. So you have more time to talk with each other, in that way. And you could exchange lots of desires, feelings and may be future planning.  So it will lead to get more and better understanding about both of you.
if you are living, little far from a city or town, Rowing a boat is another romantic idea. if you are living in a big city, still you can do it, but due to the heavy crowd in that day, it may ruin your privacy.
at the end of the day you could plan a romantic meal for both of you. It’ll be perfect your valentine’s day. May be a lunch, or if you can move to a dinner, it’ll be even better. Most of the restaurants provide Valentine’s Day special Menus at special bargain prices, giving a little tip to waiter you could arrange few decorations if you want.

Finally, I want to tell you that, Valentine’s Day is about spending time with your partner and let them to feel your love. But it’s not to fill the pockets of card companies, High class boutiques, Florists or 5 star hotel owners

The Everlasting First Kiss

"I am idealistic in my thoughts. I always maintained a safe distance to my boyfriend and we didn't even kiss each other for a year since our relationship started. Now, it was his birthday, and he was waiting for his gift in his friend's house, where we planned to meet. I got the best wallet that I could afford and nicely rapped it in a gift pack.

After giving the gift, we sat talking about our friends, weather, college and every simple thing that we could recollect. We were shy or rather scared to talk out of the box, as we were not aware how the other would feel. Strange! I knew with his gestures what he was longing for. I knew I had to make the first move, as he was scared that I would slap him or break the relationship if he did that first.

So, this is the story of the first kiss. I asked him to close his eyes, (as I couldn't even think of getting near him when his eyes were open) and kissed him gently on his eyes. Now, my macho man was stunned, excited rather puzzled with the whole situation. He didn't even know how to react. He went out of the room telling me that he just forgot something.

Now I was in his shoes. I thought I misunderstood him and he was not ready for it. At that moment he walked in with a smile and said, 'thank you'. I had a sigh of relief. He then asked me to close my eyes. I thought it was my turn. Yes it was.

First kiss, A feeling that will last foreverThe guys are smart; they utilize every move that we make. My boyfriend was not an exception. When I had closed my eyes, he softly kissed my lips. Guess what! The reaction was not the same. I had a hearty laugh. When I opened my eyes I found him standing in attention, looking at me, for my next move. Rather he was standing like a scared bird that would fly the very moment I would cry and say, "How dare you?"

We still cherish the first touch, the first kiss, the first candle light dinner...and every sweet moment that we spent together for five long years. This moment will be most treasured till the last breath, as it was the first and unique kiss, with a feeling that will last forever."

My Boy Friend

I met Robi briefly through a close friend, and later somehow acquired his mobile number. Once in a blue moon, we would SMS each other, just to say hi and find out what the other had been up to.

A year or so later, we met again, this time for a longer period of time. Jokes were exchanged and we grew more comfortable around each other. This meeting was the start of a very special friendship, a friendship that later grew to become much, much more...

In the beginning, it was just an occasional SMS here and there. Then came the all night conversations and the more intimate topics of conversation. Things like, "I'm so lonely right now" and "I wish I had someone to hold onto".

Both of us were very single and not liking it too much!! I'd been hurt before and so had he, but his was more recent and we often talked about it - so many times I thought to myself "The stupid girl must've been crazy! Look what she's thrown away!" Not once did it occur to me, that her loss could be my gain... He helped me through my many crushes and broken hearts, and managed to make me laugh with the line "So... would you like me to break his legs? Give me an address and phone number!"

No matter what time of the day or night that I messaged him, he always replied and he always seemed to know exactly what to say to make me feel better. He soon became the first person I looked to for anything - whether I needed advice, reassurance, encouragement, a laugh, a smile, or even just a hug - I turned to him.

He lives an hour away, but he began to drive up to see me and we'd just hang out for the day. I always had so much fun with him!! Then one night, I messaged him once again, crying because I'd been hurt by a guy. He was so sweet to me that night. He asked me if I wanted him to come and see me and he added that if he did, he was gonna give me the biggest hug and never let me go... He also told me that he'd do anything for me and that all I had to do was ask. And deep down inside, I'd already known that! So we agreed to meet up and I ended up going to see him the next day...

We sat in his room and watched TV, I guess cheering me up was on his agenda, so he started a pillow fight. The pillow fight pretty quickly turned into a tickle fight which somehow ended up with us passionate kissing. Straight away, I knew that there was nowhere else I'd rather be. Wrapped up in his arms, feeling so safe with him inside me, I came to the realization that I'd loved him all along. He was my partner in crime, and the one I could turn to no matter what, and that all those crushes that he’d helped me through? Had been just that – crushes.

There’d never been anyone else, and if I have my way, there never will be. What happened that day has changed my life so much and in so many positive ways. He's no longer just my best friend, he's my soul mate and my world. He's everything I’ve ever dreamed of and I love him with all of my heart…

Tragedy Story

We were in the college when my friend fell in love with that girl. It was her first day at college when we actually met her. My freind Akash was attracted towards her as she was most beautiful girl in that college. He wanted to talk to her but as we were seniour to her we were in different classes.

It was so strange that he had such feelings for her. As it is said,' love at first sight', yes the same thing had happened in his case too. He was in love with her. After few days we however managed to talk to her,she was not just beautiful but also a nice human being with a heart of gold. We came to know that her name was Shruti.

They started meeting each other frequently and soon both of them confessed they love each other. I was much more happier for my friend as he got what he had wished for.They were enjoying in there own dreamland. But life was not that easy as they had thought,all the happiness were just for a moment.

Soon they had to face many problems in there life when we came to know that Shruti was the sister of Kunal. He was our classmate but our relation with him was not so good. He belonged to a political background and also was our college president, he had some attitude problem. When he knew about them he was furious and took her away from college. Her family was strictly against their relation and they even locked her in the house.

It was being really difficult for them to spend a day without meeting each other. One day we got a message from her, she was thinking to run away with him. In that situation we also thought that it was a right thing to do as her family would never be ready for their marrige. One night he went to her house, took her and ran away. It was the biggest mistake that we did.

After few days her brother found them, there was huge fight between them. My friend Akash was badly hurt and he couldn't stop him from taking her with him. In her house her parents were planning her marrige with some other man.When I came to know about them it was really late. I took Akash to the hospital. He was unconcious for whole day, after one day when he opened his eyes he asked for her. I was not answerable to him. The same day Shruti was forcefully getting married to someone else.

I had no idea what to do.There in her house she was going through same problem. Her family could never understand their love so she had no othere alternative left. She decided to suicide rather than getting married to some other guy. When she was getting ready she took poision and gave up her life.When Akash knew about this he has stoped responding to anything. He is living like a statue,there is no life in it.

I Killed the Love of My life

Sameer was a foreign return. He decided to spend his vacation at a hillstation. He was travelling by a train there he met a girl. She was nice and beautiful. When he went near to her to talk she just ignored him and got off the train in the next station.

He was quite surprised by her behaviour. He was only thinking about her strange behaviour all the way in his journy. The next day hey decided to visit a church so he headed towards it. He was surprised to see the same girl he had seen in the train. Once again he tryied to talk to her but she was not really interested in him and went inside. He asked other people about that girl and he came to know that she was a nun in the same church.

Her behavior was quite mysterious towards to him, she was normal to other people. After many days she finally responded to him and told her name was Maya. He told her he was attracted towards her when he first met her in the train and now he is in love with her. She didn't say anything and just ran away.

As being a nun they were not allowed to get involved in anykind of such relationship,so she was avoiding him. One day he acted as if he was killing himself, he got on top of the roof of the church and threatened that he would jump off if she doesn't accepts that she also like him. Deep down inside it was true, she also liked him when she first saw him in that train but was avoiding him as she was a nun. She got too scared and accepted the truth and said she loves him. Latter on she came to know that he was just acting.

Next day while they were traveling in the car, Maya told him she was really interested in driving the car but she didn't get any chance to learn driving. Sameer insisted her to drive the car but she was scared and she denied But he made her drive the car anyhow and he was shocked to see that she was perfect in driving. Then he came to know that she was just pretending and was hiding the truth. She just tried to fool him. There were several more moments as the same in their lives. Once she asked him to teach her to ride a horse, then they went for horse riding. The same thing happened again, at first she pretended to be scared and then she came out to be a good horse rider, even much better than him. He was fooled once again.

With all these enjoyments days passed on.One day when they were in a friend's party, they were having a chat nearby a swimming pool. They started to talk about the pool and Maya told him that she was really scared of water and had never swimmed in her life before. Sameer thought that she was trying to make a fool out of him once again but he was not ready to believe her this time.

He pushed her into the pool even though she didn't wanted and left her alone for a while. After half an hour when he came back he found her dead in the pool. He was shocked and couldn't respond to anything. He was out of his mind and couldn't think what to do. The only thing that was going on his mind was that he killed the love of his life by himself. She meant a lot to him and was the whole world for him. After this incident he cursed himself for not believing her at that moment. He also lost his senses and now he is in one of the mental hospitals.

70 Years Love Story

One fine day, an old couple around the age of 70, walks into a lawyer's office. Apparently, they are there to file a divorce.

Lawyer was very puzzled, after having a chat with them, he got their story.... This couple had been quarreling all their 40 over yrs of marriage nothing ever seems to go right.

They hang on because of their children, afraid that it might affect their up-bringing. Now, all their children have already grown up, have their own family, there's nothing else the old couple have to worry about, all they wanted is to lead their own life free from all these years of unhappiness from their marriage, so both agree on a divorce....

Lawyer was having a hard time trying to get the papers done, because he felt that after 40 yrs of marriage at the age of 70, he couldn't understand why the old couple would still want a divorce..

old couple dining together, eating from the same glass with strawWhile they were signing the papers, the wife told the husband..
"I really love u, but i really cant carry on anymore, I'm sorry.."
"Its o.k, i understand.." said the husband. Looking at this, the lawyer suggested a dinner together, just 3 of them,wife thought, why not, since they are still gonna be friends..

At the dining table, there was a silence of awkwardness.
The first dish was roasted chicken, immediately, the old man took the drumstick for the old lady.."take this, its your favorite.."

Looking at this, the lawyer thought maybe theres still a chance, but the wife was frowning when she answer.."
This is always the problem, you always think so highly of yourself, never thought about how I feel, don't you know that i hate drumsticks?"

Little did she know that, over the years, the husband have been trying all ways to please her, little did she know that drumsticks was the husband's favorite. Little did he know that she never thought he understand her at all, little did he know that she hates drumsticks even though all he wants is the best for her.

That night, both of them couldn't sleep, toss and turn, toss and turn...after hours, the old man couldn't take it anymore, he knows that he still loves her, and he cant carry on life without her, he wants her back, he wants to tell her, he is sorry, he wanted to tell her "i love you"...

He picks up the phone, starting dialing her number....ringing never stops..he never stop dialing....

On the other side, she was sad, she couldn’t understand how come after all these years, he still doesn't understand her at all, she loves him a lot, but she just cant take it anymore....phone's ringing, she refuses to answer knowing that its him..."whats the point of talking now that its over...i have ask for it and now i wanna keep it this way, if not i will lose face.."she thought...still ringing...she have decided to pull out the cord...

Little did she remember, he have heart problems...

The next day, she received news that he had passed away...she rushed down to his apartment, saw his body, lying on the couch still holding on to the phone...he had a heart attack when he was still trying to get through her phone line....

As sad as she could be...she will have to clear his belongings...when she was looking through the drawers, she saw this insurance policy, dated from the day they got married, with the beneficiary being her... And together in those file, there was this note...

I love you from the bottom of my heart, you are my everlasting love"To my dearest wife, by the time you're reading this, I'm sure I'm no longer around, I bought this policy for you, though the amount is only $100k, I hope it will be able to help me continue my promise that i have made when we got married, I might not be around anymore, I want this amount of money to continue taking care of you, just like the way I will if I could have live longer. I want you to know I will always be around, by your side... I love you"

Tears flowed like river......

"When you love someone, let them know... You never know what will happen the next minute.... Learn to build a life together.. Learn to love each other. For who they are.. not what they are..."

First Kiss

I was in 1st year of college when I knew him and he was in his 3rd year of high school. We became close because of one thing and that was "Love."

He had a girlfriend and I had none. I told him every detail of my life and about my feelings for my crush and he did the same thing. He cared for me more than his girlfriend and I was doing the same thing to him. I just didn't know that I was beginning to like him because he was 2 years younger than I was and besides, he had a girlfriend.

That summer, we had a youth camp in our place. We really had a great time together and when it was time to rest, he accompanied me to the tent with his feet outside because girls and boys weren't allowed to sleep together, but there were too many mosquitoes that he let his whole body get in the tent with the door open. But, the insects started to get in, so we decided to close the tent and we were sleeping side by side.

We talked and talked when suddenly, he asked me, "Why do I love you?" I answered him saying, "Because God said 'Love one another.’" Then, he smiled and kissed me on the check and there was silence... after a while he embraced me and said "You'll never forget me." I nodded, but then he told me the same phrase again and I hardly heard him. When I asked him, he suddenly kissed my lips and hug me.

After that, I really didn't know what to say or do because I was really shocked and shy. I just turn my back away from him and look at the stars above. He listened to the beatings of my heart and asked me why my heart was beating so fast. I blamed him for that.

The next morning, he looked at me and when we got the chance to talk, he teased me with the question, "who was your first kiss?" I just smiled because I can't forget the time his lips touched mine. That was the time that I proved to myself and to everyone that first kisses are always the sweetest, especially if it's an unexpected kiss....

Paper Cranes

      There was once this guy who is very much in love with his girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper-cranes as a gift to his girl.  Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she couldn't visualize any future for the both of
them, so let's go their own ways there and then ...Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he regains his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of him.

Finally with all these hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company. You never fail until you stop trying one rainy day, while this guy was driving; he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella
the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him
long to realize those were his girl's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he droved slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan.

He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore; he had his own company, car, comfort etc. He made it! Before the guy can realize, the couple was walking towards a cemetery, and he got out of his car and followed.... and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his paper cranes beside her. Find time to realize that there is one person who means so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you Her parents saw him. He asks them why had this happened.  They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was ill with cancer.

She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be his obstacle ..... therefore she had choose to leave him ...
Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him ... Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever

The guy just wept ..... The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them 

The Promise

From the very beginning, girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy, saying that it has got to do with family background, & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him. Due to family's pressure, the couple quarreled very often. Though the girl loved the guy deeply, she always asked him: "How deep is your love for me?" As the guy is not good with his words, this often caused the girl to be very upset. With that & the family's pressure, the gal often vents her anger on him. As for him.. he only endured it in silence.

             After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the gal: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of my life. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?" The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in & agreed to let them get married. So before he left, they got engaged. The gal went out to the working society, whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails & phone calls. Though it was hard, but both never thought of giving up.

            One day, while the gal was on her way to work, she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realized that she was badly injured. Seeing her mum cry, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She had lost her voice.... The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort, but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides silent cry. it's still just silent cry that accompanied her.

           Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same. Except for the ringing tone of the phone which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know & not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer. With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply and countless phone calls. all the gal could do besides crying is still crying.... The parents decided to move away, hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy. With a new environment, the gal learnt sign language & started a new life. Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy.

           One day, her friend came & told her that he's back. She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him. A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The gal was shattered. When she opened the letter, she saw her name on it instead. When she was about to ask her friend what was going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her.... He used sign language to tell her, "I've spent a year to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You." With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger.

                                               
The gal finally smiled......

Love Lust Infatuation

You are in love with some one? Or is it only a lust?

OK…lots of people think they love their partner, but sometime its not love actually, it’s lust. So how do you recognize whether it is a love or lust or infatuation?

Well, let me put it this way…in movies girl meets a boy, and due to some matter, they walked away for a little time period, then they realized about each other  and they marry. It’s like fairy-tales, then they happily ever after. At that manner, we lead to believe love is amazing and everything happened in between guy and a girl is wonderful, and it’s the true love.


Actually what happens in real life? if you have a close look, this is how it goes. Guy meets a girl and starts dating, then have full of fun with her while trying to have some fun with other girls too. Meanwhile girl is trying to keep her guy with herself. Or girl is flirting with other guys too, may be in office, or the college. So is this type of affairs are really love? Or fun with lust?

So…having a strange feelings for someone can make the decision, that "you are in true love", for a moment, when you are actually in lust or infatuated. Here's the important facts, about infatuation, lust and love:

Lust is only a physical attractions and it last only for fulfill the physical needs. It totally depends on the appearance. With lust, you never respect the person, you need him or her only for fulfill your desires.

Infatuation is an intense feeling which helps you to imagine you are in true love, but not in reality. In here you have strong feeling about your crush and, you believe she is the person that you want, but actually she is not. You try to acknowledge by force, to your subconscious that she is the one for you, whether she is bad or good. in shortly, you trust her and you love her no matter what, its because you think it’s true love with mutual understanding.

So above both feelings are not lasting long, at some point you realize that it’s not love. Then you think that love is painful and it’s very hard. After this happened, few realize it’s not the love but the lust or infatuation. Others remain in same circulation, so again and again they go after lust and infatuation and get hurt themselves.

But when we are in real love, will have good intense feelings for a women or a man, and be attracted and connected to him or her on the level of mind, body and the soul.  Here are some clues about the real love.

Love is also a feeling. But this is not physical feeling.  And this feeling comes with lots of other things too, mercy, understanding, sharing, tenderness, dedication, hope, trust and the respect of course. When you feel that way, it will put a strong foundation for your relationship. And it will long last.

So it’s better to ask from yourself now, whether you really love your partner or it’s just a lust or  otherwise, Infatuation?